What tablet would work for video calls and games with a 3-year-old?

A standard iPad with parental controls is a flexible option, especially since his mom and your other family members already use iPhones. A refurbished older model may fit the budget. His parent can limit apps and screen time, while you use video calls, drawing apps, and games you can play together.

For shared activities, look at apps designed for doing things together during a call. Some offer read-aloud books, coloring, and simple games, which may be more engaging than handing over a general-purpose tablet. Check that the app works on both devices and review its privacy settings with his parent.

I’d keep the setup boring on purpose: one video-call app, a few parent-approved games, and music or videos selected by an adult. A tablet can do all of that, but the rules and app choices matter more than finding a device with every feature built in.

One thing to plan around is his age and energy level. A three-year-old may not want a structured game or a long call every time, especially near bedtime. Short, low-pressure calls with room for funny faces or a quick song may work better than expecting a full activity.

Before buying anything, ask his mom what device she wants him to use and what she is comfortable managing. Compatibility, app approvals, and where the tablet stays are all household decisions. If she already has a tablet, trying a few shared activities on that first could help narrow down what’s actually useful.