Hey everyone, I'm in a bit of a tough spot and could really use your advice. For the past 13 years, I've been working at a small repair shop where I started as a repair tech and eventually became the sysadmin and senior bench tech. We do everything from car dealership support to helping various small businesses. Sadly, I've reached a point where I feel burned out and underpaid. While my boss is a decent guy, it's hard watching him thrive with multiple properties while I'm struggling to buy a house. They've offered me a position in-house, but things are dragging on, and I'm feeling stuck. My wife is encouraging me to find something new, and I've even considered going solo and offering business support independently. I know that if I leave, it could really impact the shop since I'm the main point of contact for many of our clients. I'm looking for advice on how to approach my boss about leaving and any tips on transitioning some of the business clients with me. Anyone been in a similar situation?
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I totally get where you're coming from! I was in a similar boat, and trust me, at the end of the day, you have to prioritize your family. If they're struggling to pay you fairly, it might be hard for them to survive without you. Don't feel guilty about moving on—it sounds like you've earned it!
Just to put it straight, you and your boss might have a cordial relationship, but it’s not friendship in the true sense. If he hasn’t made plans for succession or ensured fair pay, he’s relying on you way too much. Time to focus on securing your future!
Honestly, if your boss is still dragging his feet on paying you fairly while he's doing well, it's time to rethink that friendship. You deserve better. Having that conversation with him is tough, but you're right about needing to jump ship if things don’t change.
Yeah, sometimes you just need that extra push to see what’s in front of you. It’s about your worth—you can’t be expected to support his multiple homes while struggling yourself!
I’ve been in the job for about 3 years too, and it's frustrating when you’re doing everything, but there’s no mutual loyalty. If they're not willing to invest in you, why should you stick around? Sometimes you've just got to take that leap of faith!
Look, if you got hit by a bus tomorrow, the business would keep going, so don’t feel like you're the only thing holding it together. You’ve got to think about yourself and your family first. When you decide to move on, just be professional and set clear boundaries.
Exactly! It’s a tough decision, but if they can’t keep you happy, they’re not going to keep afloat. You've got to look out for yourself and your family.