Hey everyone,
I really need some help! I've been with my boyfriend for two years, though the first year had its ups and downs. Last year, I caught him snooping through my phone a few times while I was drunk or asleep, which led to some big fights after he read my texts. After that, I changed my password and thought he no longer had access.
However, lately, he seems to know things he shouldn't. He makes these comments about private stuff that's only on my phone and even tells me not to 'lie' because he 'knows things.' It's freaking me out! Is it possible he's spying on or mirroring my iPhone 16 Pro?
I checked my iCloud settings, and everything looks normal – just my current and old devices. But yesterday, he said some weird things, like offering to let me access his devices and even mentioned 'mirroring my phone.'
I'm really worried that he might already have some kind of access. Can anyone tell me how to check if he's spying on my phone and what I can do to stop it? Thank you! 🙏
5 Answers
Honestly, the best thing you can do is seriously consider ending this relationship. His behavior is really concerning, and if he feels the need to go through your phone, that's a huge red flag. Plus, change your iCloud password right away and log out any unfamiliar devices.
Yes! A healthy relationship shouldn't require any phone snooping!
You should definitely check your iCloud for any unexpected devices. If he had access while you were sleeping, he could have easily logged into your account without you knowing. Also, I recommend doing a full reset on your phone if you're really worried about spyware or unauthorized access.
Exactly, and remember to reset all your passwords after that! It's crucial.
And make sure to set up security features like MFA if you haven't yet!
Dude, you've gotta get out of this relationship. It's making you anxious and you shouldn’t have to feel like this. You deserve better!
Seriously, get out before it gets worse!
Yes! Your peace of mind is way more important than any relationship.
I get that breaking up isn’t easy, but his behavior won't improve. Also, make sure to check your phone settings for any suspicious apps or permissions. If you find anything weird, get rid of it!
Definitely check for strange apps you didn't install. Some can spy without you knowing.
And don't forget to look into your VPN settings for anything unusual!
Without trying to pry too much, what kind of things is he mentioning that he's not supposed to know? It sounds like he could just be trying to manipulate you into confessing something. That’s a huge red flag.
Totally agree! No one should feel like they have to hide their phone from their partner. Getting out sounds like the best move.