I'm in a tough situation and really need some advice. I've been with my fiancé for over two years, but I'm starting to believe he might have access to my phone and other devices. I've noticed strange activity, especially with my iPhone and Galaxy Fold, and it seems like he might be accessing my accounts and emails without permission.
I'm wondering if he could have gained access through our Wi-Fi network since he has sole admin privileges. I've never seen him physically take my phones, so I've been trying to give him the benefit of the doubt, but his history of dishonesty is concerning.
Here's what's been happening:
1. I think he's making purchases or manipulating subscriptions, and it's coming from my accounts without my consent.
2. Screenshots I take for evidence mysteriously disappear.
3. Whenever I disable certain features, they get turned back on.
What can I do about this? I've already moved out, and things are less stressful, but I want to take further steps to protect myself. Are there any apps, anti-virus tools, or other recommendations that could help me secure my devices?
1 Answer
First of all, change all your passwords, and don’t reuse any! After that, back up your data and consider doing a factory reset on your phone to clear any potential malware. It’s a hassle but worth it for peace of mind. And don’t forget to change the passwords again after the reset!
Thanks for the advice! Is it also a good idea to avoid using his Wi-Fi? I want to be cautious.