I've been working as a developer and I'm starting to feel really overwhelmed by the constant pressure of my job. I have a daily meeting with my team lead and the managing director where I'm expected to report on my progress, and honestly, it terrifies me. I find myself counting down the hours until the next meeting, even on weekends. We don't always have clear tasks assigned, but there's still this expectation to show progress. Is this kind of anxiety common in development roles? Should I just learn to cope with it, or does it mean this environment might not be right for me? I would appreciate any tips on how to handle this situation.
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Having solo meetings every day to discuss your progress isn't really typical in a dev role. Usually, teams have stand-ups where everyone shares updates together. It's normal to feel stressed about speaking in front of higher-ups, but writing down your key points beforehand can help ease that anxiety. If the meetings are making it hard for you to focus, consider talking to your bosses about switching them to a less frequent schedule. Don't hesitate to ask how the meetings help them; it shows you care about your work environment.
It sounds like you're in a junior position, which can add pressure, especially with constant feedback required. Daily updates aren't outrageous for someone just starting, but they can definitely ramp up anxiety levels. If the expectations are overly perfectionist, it’s worth discussing this with your team. It might be helpful to bring up how the stress is affecting your performance. They might not realize the pressure they’re putting on you, and they could adjust their approach
Yeah, I think addressing the issue with your team could really help. You might be surprised at how supportive they can be. Just be honest about how you're feeling. Maybe they can help find a better balance!
I feel you on the one-on-one meetings! It sounds tough, especially with the pressure from the managing director. But remember, it’s okay to share your feelings about how these meetings affect your work. Clear communication could really help.