Hey everyone! I'm a junior in Computer Science who transferred from community college after a year, really looking forward to project-based classes. The admission process was super tough, so getting in felt like a huge win. However, last fall semester, I faced a project that was much more complex than anything I'd dealt with before. This led to intense feelings of imposter syndrome, especially since I struggle with public speaking, and it became evident during group presentations. In the end, I panicked and skipped my final presentation, ignoring everyone involved. As a result, I failed the course and got kicked out of the program. Now I'm back home feeling stuck and regretting my choices. I want advice on how to move forward and rebuild my confidence. What should I do next?
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You really need to address the panic and fear because it can impact more than just school—it's going to affect your whole life. Trust me, tackling this head-on is crucial for moving forward.
Focus on your mental health first. Therapy can make a huge difference. Also, I'd recommend trying out transcendental meditation as a way to handle stress and anxiety before considering medication. The One Giant Mind app is a good place to start!
It's totally normal to feel anxious about public speaking, but skipping finals isn't the way to go. Have you considered talking to a psychiatrist? Medication could help manage your anxiety. Also, remember, you don’t need a structured program to learn. Find a challenging personal project instead, work on it, share your progress, and keep improving!
Exactly! I've never heard of anyone getting kicked out for failing one course unless there are deeper issues at play.
Just try again, plain and simple! Confidence builds with experience. If you can, apply to another CS program. Project-driven learning is key, and remember: every expert started as a beginner!
Definitely check in with a therapist to work on those confidence issues, then think about trying CS again when you feel more stable.
If confidence is the issue, maybe consider taking a job that pushes you out of your comfort zone. A service job, like waiting tables, can help you deal with anxiety while giving you a direct reason to want to succeed.
Yeah, I've seen lots of people deal with this kind of anxiety. Communication is key! Letting others know what's going on can really help you avoid the panic that leads to ghosting.