I'm wondering if it's possible for someone to impersonate me on Facebook and make it appear that I'm sending messages from my IP address. I haven't been directly accused of anything, but there's been a situation where someone contacted my boyfriend's friend with threatening messages. The person claiming to be me has my first name and reportedly used an account that interacted with my boyfriend's timeline recently. The messages supposedly came from an IP address in my state, which raises my concern. I've never talked to this friend before, and I've heard that lawyers have been involved, sending cease and desist letters related to the IP addresses used. If I receive such a letter, how can I prove it wasn't me?
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If you’ve got someone bothering you, blocking them on Facebook is a good first step. But if you're being wrongly accused, just familiarize yourself with the situation so you can stand firm. It’s good you’re seeking advice to get clarity on this.
True, it’s more about protecting your name than anything else right now.
Honestly, it sounds pretty sketchy. How would someone even get your IP address from Facebook unless law enforcement was involved? Plus, Facebook doesn’t disclose IP addresses to users, so that part seems fabricated.
Yeah, I was thinking the same thing! If her lawyers are claiming they found your IP, that's a red flag. Sounds more like a scam than anything else.
My friend in IT said there are apps that can potentially see IPs, but that’s really only in specific situations. It’s not straightforward.
If you do get a cease and desist, remember that it’s just a request to stop doing something that you’re not doing! A friendly note from a lawyer clarifying that could be enough to clear your name, or they might just be trying to intimidate you.
It definitely sounds like someone might be using a fake profile to mess with you. You won’t be able to see the IP addresses of people messaging you, and neither can they unless they have some serious tech support behind them.
Exactly. This whole thing raises so many red flags about the legitimacy of their claims!
It's wild! If they really think they have your IP, they’re probably just trying to scare you.
That’s not really how IP addresses work. Just because the messages came from an IP in your area doesn’t mean it’s actually you. There are ways to spoof IPs, and weirdly, some apps could let someone else do this.

Right, but you’re not even the one being harassed! It’s frustrating to be accused without basis.