I'm worried that my estranged brother might have installed some kind of software on our elderly father's iPhone (an iPhone 13 Pro Max running iOS 18.6) to secretly record phone conversations. We don't have a good relationship, and while we both visit our dad often, I suspect he might be using tech to invade our privacy. What can I do to check for any hidden apps or software when I'm at my dad's place? Any tips on how to search for this without my brother catching on?
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Yes, there are various software types that can lead to privacy breaches, ranging from simple stalkerware to advanced spyware. For many of these, physical access to the phone is necessary. If you're worried about detection, antivirus programs might help find simpler software, but be cautious about high-level spyware that typical users can't detect. To safeguard future communications, you might consider getting a new, secure device and keeping it completely secret. Even a landline can be a safe bet since it's difficult to bug them.
The software mentioned is usually rare and pricey, often reserved for serious espionage. But generally, it’s hard to install rogue software on iOS without physical access. Make sure to check your dad's phone settings for anything unusual.
It's pretty tough to secretly record calls on iPhones without the user knowing. Typically, any app that could do that needs to be opened first. Unless your brother is familiar with jailbreaking—which is tricky—it's unlikely he managed to install anything malicious. If you're still concerned about safety, consider looking into apps like 360life which offer tracking and are hard to uninstall, although you might want to explain it to your dad first.
If you find any spyware, consider sticking to a second phone for sensitive discussions to avoid raising suspicions. Use the bugged phone for casual talks and keep the serious stuff for the secret one.